Everyone Has an Opinion

I was having a conversation with someone the other day where my opinion differed from theirs. No big deal, right? Until it was…

Now, everyone has an opinion. And don’t get me wrong, I appreciate—and even encourage— this individuality and diversity. But my question is: Why do people attempt to convince others that their opinion is 100% accurate? Why do they feel the need to force that opinion on others, and worse, witness a “conversion” experience of sorts?


This happens to me at least once a day, on a scale that ranges from minor issues to ones on much more significant, impactful scales. But the premise is the same and not cool at all. Referring back to the original conversation I mentioned, well, to be quite honest, it left me feeling uneasy—mainly because I didn’t (and still don’t) understand the need for pushiness and forceful opinions.


There is a perfect word that describes this: Obtrude. The word is defined as a verb, meaning “To impose (oneself or one’s ideas) on others with undue insistence or without invitation.” Did you get that last part? Without invitation.


If we are honest, we can all say that at one point in time, we’ve been guilty of slipping into this scenario of imposing our opinions, values, beliefs, etc., on others in an attempt to somehow convince them to agree with us. Now, think back—was it effective? I would wager good money that at least 9 out of 10 times that question is answered, it would be a resounding NO.


Why? I’ve thought a lot about this, and I believe there are a few main reasons. First, this causes stress or strain in the relationship, sometimes even severing the bond we share altogether. The more we try to push or force our ideas on someone and force them to bend, the more pressure and stress we are placing on the relationship itself. The person is left feeling marginalized, disrespected, unheard, or worse.


Second, back to the effectiveness of this strategy (or lack thereof). If you genuinely want to change someone’s mind, it has to be up to them. No amount of pushing will work. You can present what you feel are facts but then LEAVE IT. There is no use in pushing further from there. They have the facts, and it is certainly not your job (or within your control) to convince them to accept said facts.


Finally, when I am tempted to push in a conversation where I disagree with someone, I have to force myself to take a breath and challenge myself, asking: What is driving me in this situation? Why am I getting so worked up about this? Again, nine times out of 10, it is a making a mountain out of a molehill situation that needs to be nipped in the bud.


The bottom line for me is this: Unless someone is harming someone else with what they are doing, I do not see any reason to impose my opinion on what they believe or are doing of being the “right” way. Other people should not need to adopt my views and values, and it really shouldn’t ruin my day, or cause me to lose sleep, when they don’t.

Recent Posts

By David Collier September 3, 2025
Summer has officially wound down, and as we step into September, the clock already started ticking for 2026. For executives, boards, and senior leaders, this is your moment to pause and ask a critical question: Do we have a clear, actionable plan to guide our organization into the next fiscal and calendar year? If you haven’t started, you’re already behind. The Cost of Waiting Markets are moving faster, technological innovation is reshaping industries daily, and the competitive landscape is anything but forgiving. Thriving organizations are the ones that anticipate disruption, set direction early, and align resources to execute with discipline. When companies delay annual planning, three things typically happen: Teams get stuck in reactive mode instead of proactively driving strategy Investments drift without clear ROI measures. Leadership spends more time putting out preventable fires instead of building sustainable growth. Why the Work Starts in September Annual planning is not a “December activity.” By then, budgets are frozen, priorities are locked, and the opportunity for bold shifts passed long ago. September is when leaders should start shaping the Goals, Objectives, Strategies, and Tactics that define the Annual Operating Plan. Done right, this process brings: Clarity and focus – align executives, boards, and staff on what matters most. Scalability and efficiency – ensure processes and structures keep pace with growth. Confidence in change – provide the roadmap needed to navigate transformation with control and measurable success. Where Many Organizations Struggle Whether you’re a rapidly scaling startup, a mature enterprise, or a mid-market company juggling priorities, the challenges are often the same: No formal plan to guide business activity for the next 12–24 months. Difficulty prioritizing “the right things” amid competing demands. Frustration when large, complex initiatives underdeliver on expectations. Teams overworked but misaligned, with unclear visibility into progress. Practical Tips for Executives and Boards While every organization’s journey is unique, here are a few starting points: Start with the end in mind. What do you want 2026 to look like? Work backwards to define the steps. Bring in diverse perspectives. Boards, executives, and front-line leaders all see different parts of the business. Focus on agility, not just control. Build room for flexibility so your plan evolves as the market shifts. Don’t reinvent the wheel. Mature organizations often need fine-tuning, not reinvention—whereas growth-stage firms may need help building structure for the first time. How Amplify Helps At Amplify, we partner with leadership teams to design operating plans that are not just theoretical, but actionable. Our blend of strategy, operations, and transformation expertise allows us to meet organizations where they are—whether you’re defining your first framework or refining a well-established planning cycle. The question isn’t if you’ll need a 2026 plan. The question is how ready will you be when the new year arrives? If your organization hasn’t started, the best time to begin is today.
By Matt Trembicki March 26, 2025
Talent is the single biggest factor in whether a high-growth company thrives or stalls. As companies scale, the challenge shifts from just hiring quickly to hiring the right people who can grow with the business. At Amplify Resources Group, we’ve seen firsthand how hiring missteps can slow down even the most promising companies: Bad hires cost companies 30% of annual salary in lost productivity and rehiring costs. Hiring delays can set growth targets back 6-12 months. Companies that don’t hire for future needs end up in constant reactive mode , always playing catch-up. So, how do you build a scalable and future-proof talent strategy? Here’s our 4-step framework to help high-growth companies hire, develop, and retain the right people for sustainable success.
By Amplify March 24, 2025
Implement the ASTRA Framework: A mplify S trategic T argeted R esource A cquisition
Show More

Recent Posts

By David Collier September 3, 2025
Summer has officially wound down, and as we step into September, the clock already started ticking for 2026. For executives, boards, and senior leaders, this is your moment to pause and ask a critical question: Do we have a clear, actionable plan to guide our organization into the next fiscal and calendar year? If you haven’t started, you’re already behind. The Cost of Waiting Markets are moving faster, technological innovation is reshaping industries daily, and the competitive landscape is anything but forgiving. Thriving organizations are the ones that anticipate disruption, set direction early, and align resources to execute with discipline. When companies delay annual planning, three things typically happen: Teams get stuck in reactive mode instead of proactively driving strategy Investments drift without clear ROI measures. Leadership spends more time putting out preventable fires instead of building sustainable growth. Why the Work Starts in September Annual planning is not a “December activity.” By then, budgets are frozen, priorities are locked, and the opportunity for bold shifts passed long ago. September is when leaders should start shaping the Goals, Objectives, Strategies, and Tactics that define the Annual Operating Plan. Done right, this process brings: Clarity and focus – align executives, boards, and staff on what matters most. Scalability and efficiency – ensure processes and structures keep pace with growth. Confidence in change – provide the roadmap needed to navigate transformation with control and measurable success. Where Many Organizations Struggle Whether you’re a rapidly scaling startup, a mature enterprise, or a mid-market company juggling priorities, the challenges are often the same: No formal plan to guide business activity for the next 12–24 months. Difficulty prioritizing “the right things” amid competing demands. Frustration when large, complex initiatives underdeliver on expectations. Teams overworked but misaligned, with unclear visibility into progress. Practical Tips for Executives and Boards While every organization’s journey is unique, here are a few starting points: Start with the end in mind. What do you want 2026 to look like? Work backwards to define the steps. Bring in diverse perspectives. Boards, executives, and front-line leaders all see different parts of the business. Focus on agility, not just control. Build room for flexibility so your plan evolves as the market shifts. Don’t reinvent the wheel. Mature organizations often need fine-tuning, not reinvention—whereas growth-stage firms may need help building structure for the first time. How Amplify Helps At Amplify, we partner with leadership teams to design operating plans that are not just theoretical, but actionable. Our blend of strategy, operations, and transformation expertise allows us to meet organizations where they are—whether you’re defining your first framework or refining a well-established planning cycle. The question isn’t if you’ll need a 2026 plan. The question is how ready will you be when the new year arrives? If your organization hasn’t started, the best time to begin is today.
By Matt Trembicki March 26, 2025
Talent is the single biggest factor in whether a high-growth company thrives or stalls. As companies scale, the challenge shifts from just hiring quickly to hiring the right people who can grow with the business. At Amplify Resources Group, we’ve seen firsthand how hiring missteps can slow down even the most promising companies: Bad hires cost companies 30% of annual salary in lost productivity and rehiring costs. Hiring delays can set growth targets back 6-12 months. Companies that don’t hire for future needs end up in constant reactive mode , always playing catch-up. So, how do you build a scalable and future-proof talent strategy? Here’s our 4-step framework to help high-growth companies hire, develop, and retain the right people for sustainable success.
By Amplify March 24, 2025
Implement the ASTRA Framework: A mplify S trategic T argeted R esource A cquisition
Show More